Just a Vapor

I saw something yesterday that I don't think I have ever seen before.  It was hot, especially after mowing and weed-eating the lawn.  A quick dip in our pool seemed like the logical thing to do and it was too tempting to pass up.  After I had balanced myself in the "floaty thing", I began to relax and just gaze up into the sky.  As I did, there were a few vapor clouds that were passing by overhead.  Just like a kid, I began to make shapes out of them and let my imagination be stretched a little.  As the vapor cloud was moved by the wind, I made out the shape of a dolphin, spider and then it became a star-burst.  As I continued to enjoy thinking like a child, it happened.  I began to notice that the vapor cloud started to disappear.  One after another, each vapor cloud began to vaporize.  It wasn't instant but it took probably close to a minute.  It seemed to be gradual but each cloud disappeared into thin air.  It was intriguing because I had never seen a cloud just vanish before my eyes.  It happens all the time, but I had never really been still long enough to recognize it. 

My mind began to think about what I just saw.  I thought of what James tells us about our lives.
James 4:14 (NKJV) whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.

As I thought of the clouds disappearing so quickly, I really began to think about how quickly our lives go by as well.  It made be think of the study by Max Lucado we are doing in our men's group on Wednesday nights ~ "Out Live Your Life".  It reminds us that we only have one life to live and challenges us to make our life count by living out what the Bible instructs us to do. 

 Many times, I believe, that we forget that our lives, just like the vapor clouds, will slowly go away.  When all is said and done, how have we lived our lives?  Have we made a difference?  Have we encouraged and helped others?  Have we lived a life pleasing to the Lord?  Will we hear those wonderful words, "Well done, good and faithful servant"?  Remember, our lives here on earth are just a vapor.  Live your life to the fullest and make a difference.

The End of the World

Facebook, news media, headlines are all talking about "Judgement Day".  Today is supposed to be the day that the rapture is to take place according to Harold Camping and his followers.  Many laugh and then some believe it will take place today.  What do you think?

The subject came up last night at a wedding rehearsal dinner I was attending.  The question was asked to me (since I was the "preacher" I guess), "What do you think?"  My response was, "the Bible states no man knows the day or hour..."  If asked if I think the end of the world is taking place today, my response would have to be "I don't know."  Personally I don't think that God would send His son Jesus back to earth just to make a man's prediction come true.  But I really do believe that Jesus could come back at any moment.

Many thoughts race through my head about this prediction. Here are just a couple.

First, many people just dismiss it and say the people who believe this are crazy.  I do believe it may damage the validity of people who really are prophets, teachers, preachers, evangelists, apostles, etc because we some how get "lumped" in the same group as this man who is predicting the end of the world.

Secondly, what would take place if we really did believe that Jesus was coming back today?  What would you be doing?  Would you live differently if you did know the date?  I doubt it.  I really believe that we would still be living the way we live and at the "deadline" we would repent and have a change of heart.  Maybe that is why Jesus said that no one will know when it will take place.  It may be that our Heavenly Father really does want us to live everyday as if it were our last.  I know I would probably re-prioritize a few things.  Wouldn't you?

So, my conclusion is simple.  Today could or could not be the day of the rapture.  The point is we DON'T KNOW the hour or day so we should be living everyday as if it could happen at any moment. 

"I KNOW!"

I'm sure that most everyone and every family have their "morning routines".  We definitely do at our house.  Each person has a time when they wake up and begin their routine for the day.  Our routine will vary somewhat depending upon our schedules and meetings, but usually I take Mitchell to school because Ashlyn and Krystal are both going to the high school. 


Me and Mitchell have a "routine" when we are driving up to Northside Elementary.  Our conversation goes something like this as we approach the drop-off line: 
Me:  "Unbuckle and get your backpack ready."
Mitchell:  "Okay"
Me (as we approach):  "Mitchell you are going to have a great day because you are blessed and highly favored of the Lord."
Mitchell:  "I know and you are too."
Me (as he is getting out):  "Have a great day and I love you." 
Mitchell:  "okay" or "love you too" ~ sometimes he is so ready to get out, he doesn't say anything.

This morning was just like all the rest but this time Mitchell said something when he was getting out of the truck at the drop off line that took me back...at first.
 Me:  "Have a great day and I love ya lil' man."
 Mitchell:  "I Know." (nonchalantly)

The following thoughts rushed through my mind quickly,  "What?  Not a 'I love you too'?  Do you not love me?  Hey, you can't get out of this truck until you tell me you love me back."  Were my feelings hurt?  Well maybe for a nano second.  Then my heart became filled with gratitude and joy.  "He KNOWS that I love him."  Wow!  He doesn't wonder about it.  He doesn't question if I do.  He just simply knows. 

Isn't the same with our heavenly Father?  We don't have to wonder about it.  We don't have to doubt it or question if He does.  We can just simply KNOW that He loves us. 

John 3:16 says it all, "For God so LOVED the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have everlasting life."

I'm glad that Ashlyn & Mitchell both KNOW that I love them.  They don't doubt it or question if I do.  They just know.

Just know that God really does love His children.

Good Friday!

On this day, we remember what our Lord and savior Jesus Christ went through so that we may have a REDEEMER.  The story is very familiar ~ even to those who don't claim to be believers in Jesus Christ.  But sometimes things become too familiar.  May we take time today to remember what Jesus went through on this day we call "Good Friday".

Today is "Good Friday" and we recall the crucifixion of Jesus Christ and all that he went through so that we may believe in Him and have eternal life with Him.  So on this day ~ take a moment to remember.

Today is Good Friday ~ but Sunday is on its way!

Another Milestone

Well, we have reached another milestone at the Wheat household.  I know that many of my blogs deal with how fast time goes by, but once again it has flown by.  Just this past Thursday we acquired another licensed driver in our family.  Well, if you consider a "learner's permit" a license, then we have arrived.  Ashlyn passed her written drivers' test and now she can legally drive with anyone who is 21 and has a valid driver's license.  I am proud of her for her accomplishment.  In fact, as she got up from the table from taking her test, I knew she had passed as she gave me her "special grin" and gave a "fist pump".  It was a great moment.

As we walked out of the testing center, which is in Gentry, she went towards the passenger side and then said, "Hey dad, can I drive back to school?"  Without hesitation, dad said, "Sure!"  She didn't know that I was already planning on allowing her this great privilege.  Once again, memories began to flash in my mind.  She is growing up and there is nothing I can do.  She jumped in the driver's seat and brought us back to Siloam.

Isn't that just like our Heavenly Father.  We reach milestones in our lives and He is there to teach, train and celebrate with us when we accomplish the task.  He isn't there to keep us from moving forward and "growing up".  He is there to cheer us and to encourage us.  You see, this was Ashly's second time to take the test.  We had gone the week before and she missed passing by only one question.  She was heartbroken and disappointed.  Me and Krystal just encouraged her and told her that she just needed to study a little harder and she would pass.

How many times have I not passed the test the first time and had to "re-take it."  There have been many tests in life that I have had to take more than twice.  But each time our Heavenly Father is there, not condemning or scolding, but encouraging and teaching us.  I am so thankful that I have a Heavenly Father that loves me and helps me to pass the tests that I face in this life.  When I pass, He is the first one there to celebrate as I give "fist pump" of celebration.

By the way, Ashly is a very good driver and did great driving us back to Siloam.  In fact, she drove Krystal and herself to school this morning.  Another milestone has been reached.  Wow!

20 Years

It was 20 years ago on March 1st that I said those two words to Krystal and I haven't regretted them:  "I do".  It doesn't seem possible that we have been happily married for 20 years.  They really have been happy, too.  Looking back it seems as if time has just flown by.  As we reflected over the twenty years, there are some great memories and stories to tell.  It may seem a little crazy and "unusual" but we really never have had a fight.  There have been some disagreements and apologies have had to be made from time to time, but never has the thought of separation or divorce ever entered into our minds or came out of our mouths.  I'm not saying this in a prideful way, but in a thankful way.  God has really been good to us as a couple.  Krystal has been God's blessing and gift to me.  I also think that she believes that I am a blessing and gift from God to her.  That is probably why our marriage has been so good.  When someone you love gives you a precious gift, you take care of that gift.  Our relationship is my gift from God and I want to do all I can to nurture & protect this precious gift.  I'm not perfect and I'm not always good at nurturing, but we both do what is needed to keep our relationship a priority.

"Big Cedar Lodge"

This year we were able to do something really special for our 20th.  Just a couple of weeks ago, we went our to eat at PF Chang's.  It was a great night of dinning and spending the evening together.  Then this past week, while Krystal was on spring break, I had booked two nights at the Big Cedar Lodge which is located just outside of Branson, MO.  Neither one of us had been to Big Cedar and we were not disappointed.  I rented a log cabin for two nights and we didn't really have a schedule.  When you live by a schedule, not having one is a great gift you can give.  We did have dinner at the Worman House at Big Cedar and spent a day in Branson just passing the time away together.  We did go see the show "SIX" and really enjoyed it.  We would highly recommend it.  We spent time talking and taking a walk around Big Cedar Resort.  It was quiet and very relaxing.  It was a great time for us both to wind down and just be with each other.


Marriage isn't always easy because it has been ordained by God.  Anything that has been ordained by God, Satan wants to destroy it.  This precious gift that me and Krystal have isn't an exception.  Our prayer is that God receives the glory in everything we do in our lives ~ especially our marriage & family.


Krystal, thank you for 20 great years.  I'm glad I fell in love with my best friend.  I am looking forward to many years to come.  By the way, we need to begin planning for our big 25th Anniversary.  It will be here before we know it!

The Dinner Table

The Dinner Table; If you are like a lot of families, the dinner table is something that becomes a "catch all".   As we pass through or get home from a busy day we lay items such as the mail, a backpack or other items on it while we are on our way to another destination in the house.  Sometimes it is used for a craft or coloring table for the kids to create their latest piece of artwork.  But the real use of the table is to sit down, eat and fellowship.

The Wheat family is just like many families today in that we have a busy schedule.  "Between Sundays" isn't just a name for this blog but it is our life.  When school, church and other activities begin to fill the calendar it is sometimes hard to use the dinner table for what it was designed.  We try to make an effort to sit down at the dinner table but it doesn't always work.  But this week we have been able to sit together, eat, talk and laugh as we have sat down at the Wheat's dinner table.  Ashlyn & Mitchell tell us about their day.  The conversation is usually about the exciting things that happened in school or other events that are coming up.  Ashlyn's topic is usually homework and sports.  Mitchell's topic is usually about a trip to the library or what took place at Sunshine Montessori.  It's usually nothing too deep but a time spent together around the dinner table. 

I wonder what would happen if we, in our busy schedules, would take time to sit around God's "dinner table"?  As a father, I enjoy sitting and listening to my kids share about their day.  Sometimes they ask questions but for the most part they are just talking and not asking for anything.  It's a time for reflection, direction and also connection.  We all get busy, but for some reason I think God would love for us to just take some time to come and sit at His "Dinner Table".  The great thing about God's "Dinner Table" is that it can be anywhere you want it to be.

I know personally that our busy times get in the way but I also know how precious those times around the dinner table can be.  Our schedules don't always allow us to sit at the dinner table, but when we do make time it is a precious moment.  All of us have busy schedules but what would happen if we did take time to sit at our family dinner table more often?  What would happen to us spiritually if we took time to sit at our heavenly Father's dinner table more often?